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idsamdg 11-01-2008 09:17 PM

What to do...
 
Ok - so it's 1.16am and I can't sleep. I am sooo bored that I stooped to asking Felix what to do....and after spending several hours checking out his top ten list of 'personal sites' I am still way bored.....what should I doooooooo?????

ThreeDee 11-01-2008 09:28 PM

http://www.stumbleupon.com/

Probably the best time waster ever made. Just press 'stumble' and find something interesting. :)

idsamdg 11-01-2008 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ThreeDee (Post 501163)
http://www.stumbleupon.com/

Probably the best time waster ever made. Just press 'stumble' and find something interesting. :)

I love you

tw 11-01-2008 11:40 PM

what ever happened to the old days where if you got bored, you were pretty much forced to do something productive?

Jay Carr 11-02-2008 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by tw (Post 501174)
what ever happened to the old days where if you got bored, you were pretty much forced to do something productive?

I don't know when that would have been, because as long as I've been alive it's never been that way. I wish it were...

tw 11-02-2008 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Zalister (Post 501223)
I don't know when that would have been, because as long as I've been alive it's never been that way. I wish it were...

Kill your TV. and your iBook, and iPod, and your iPhone. in fact, kill your TV, everything that starts with an 'I' (which is very buddhist, come to think of it...)

aehurst 11-02-2008 03:37 PM

It is a short term condition. I spent the first 20 years of my life bored and looking for something to do... and the next 45 trying hard to get everything done that needed to be done. Haven't caught up yet.

Jay Carr 11-02-2008 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by tw (Post 501250)
Kill your TV. and your iBook, and iPod, and your iPhone. in fact, kill your TV, everything that starts with an 'I' (which is very buddhist, come to think of it...)

For the record, killing anything is very un-buddhist. Though you are correct that attachment to the mundane is regarded as a sure way towards un-satisfaction. The tricky thing is that you can use something without being attached to it...but where is that line for you?

Anyway, sorry for the short counter-comment...just wanted to set it straight :).

@aehurst -- at the age of 25...I'm starting to see what you are saying as kind of familiar...I guess that feeling will just intensify then?

tw 11-02-2008 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Zalister (Post 501265)
For the record, killing anything is very un-buddhist. Though you are correct that attachment to the mundane is regarded as a sure way towards un-satisfaction. The tricky thing is that you can use something without being attached to it...but where is that line for you?

Actually, in buddhist philosophy nothing actually exists, and so killing itself is ultimately a neutral act (just another manifestation of form from the formless...). the reason most buddhists practice non-violence (or ahimsa in stronger cases) is that the act of killing is always deeply attached - people kill out of hunger, or rage, or lust, or pride, or some other motivation that draws a stark line between the self and the other. in other words, Buddhist refrain from killing because killing strengthens the ego, not because killing is intrinsically wrong. that being said... namaste. ;)

aehurst 11-02-2008 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Zalister (Post 501265)

@aehurst -- at the age of 25...I'm starting to see what you are saying as kind of familiar...I guess that feeling will just intensify then?

Big time. Add a wife, a house, cars, work, kids and all their activities all competing for your time.... it all grows exponentially.

ThreeDee 11-02-2008 08:17 PM

I just stumbled upon this:
http://cache.boston.com/bonzai-fba/O...663_8520-1.gif

Jay Carr 11-02-2008 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by tw (Post 501272)
Actually, in buddhist philosophy nothing actually exists, and so killing itself is ultimately a neutral act (just another manifestation of form from the formless...). the reason most buddhists practice non-violence (or ahimsa in stronger cases) is that the act of killing is always deeply attached - people kill out of hunger, or rage, or lust, or pride, or some other motivation that draws a stark line between the self and the other. in other words, Buddhist refrain from killing because killing strengthens the ego, not because killing is intrinsically wrong. that being said... namaste. ;)

? Being Buddhist myself and having studied it in college for a few years now...

Of course, the one thing you can always say about Buddhism as a religion is that it depends on the particular flavor of Buddhism you believe. In the ones I'm familiar with there really is no such thing as non-existence, just a non-existence of permanence of being. Meaning, things cannot stay the same for any amount of time, they will always change. This is often also referred to as emptiness of being.

That being said, I like your reasoning behind non-violence. Attachment to material is a sure way to find yourself suffering from rage, sadness and any other of the negative emotions. And usually those passions lead to you acting against an understading of impermanence. And trying to make something impermenant be permenant can lead to violence, that is for certain.

The way I was taught it, is that we are not violent because we are all are part of the same existence (or the same reality), thus we are all basically one being. And it is pointless to fight against oneself. We love everyone because we want good for all, including our own ego. Put in a more esoteric form, we always want was is best for ourselves (meaning everyone.)

That being said, interpretations of the tripitaka vary from sect to sect. To me that's one of the wonderful things about Buddhism. So, it would be interseting to see if you have any further thoughts on what I was saying...

fazstp 11-02-2008 09:33 PM

I have to admit the only Buddhist studies I ever did were watching Monkey when I was a kid.

tw 11-03-2008 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Zalister (Post 501334)
? Being Buddhist myself and having studied it in college for a few years now...

Of course, the one thing you can always say about Buddhism as a religion is that it depends on the particular flavor of Buddhism you believe. In the ones I'm familiar with there really is no such thing as non-existence, just a non-existence of permanence of being. Meaning, things cannot stay the same for any amount of time, they will always change. This is often also referred to as emptiness of being.

...

The way I was taught it, is that we are not violent because we are all are part of the same existence (or the same reality), thus we are all basically one being. And it is pointless to fight against oneself. We love everyone because we want good for all, including our own ego. Put in a more esoteric form, we always want was is best for ourselves (meaning everyone.)

Ah, the Mahayana path, such a beautiful thing... :)

I'm not really Buddhist in the proper sense of the word (there isn't really a word for what I am - I keep trying to hold to that enigmatic thing that lies behind the faith of most every religion), but if you go down to the roots of buddhist philosophy I'm not sure that the 'we are all one' argument quite holds. Buddhism was steeped in Vedic (or maybe proto-Vedic) philosophy, which spent a lot of time arguing over the developmental relationship between the personal soul (atman), the 'universal' soul (brahman), and various intermediary things such as the devas (god-like manifestations of aspects of brahman). the great insight of buddhism was to point out that the arguments themselves are conflicts that arise out of attachments. Even the belief in a universal soul, or in a personal soul, can lead to attachments that can draw you into conflict and away from peace. At core, buddhism has to say 'no way to know', except to rid yourself of attachment after attachment after attachment and see what's left when all attachments are gone. The 'we are all one' idea (which, note, is almost entirely absent from Theraveda) came later, due to a number of factors (Hindu influences in Vajrayana buddhism, Taoist influences in Zen/Chan, one of the later buddha's observation that the quest for personal liberation can easily become an attachment in its own right...). Not that it's a wrong idea, of course; but the fact that it is an idea rather than an experienced reality places it among the things that can give rise to dukkha.

of course, you have to place things in the context of what people can understand. the notion that 'we always want was is best for ourselves (where ourselves means everyone)' is easier to grasp than the idea that neither the self nor anyone else exists in the way we mean the term, and it places things in a moral light that is useful for those (99.999%) of us who are still attached to the concept of a self. it goes a long way towards ameliorating the conflicts that arise from that attachment (e.g. 'I have a self, and that self wants things, and that wanting would naturally bring me into conflict with others, except the others I would conflict with are really me, so...'). but eventually (on the path) that schism between the self and the other would disappear as meaningless, and when it disappears there would no longer be a need for the binding thought that we are all one.

this is reminding me of an old joke. Rene DesCartes was sitting in his study when he suddenly came to the realization 'I think therefore I am'. a moment later, his butler came in and asked him if he wanted a cup of tea. DesCartes, still glowing from his insight, smiled and said 'Oh, no, I think not...', and promptly disappeared in a puff of smoke. :D

@fazstp - man, didn't you ever watch 'Kung Fu'? that show did more to promote (and obfuscate) buddhism in America than anything else I can think of.

NovaScotian 11-03-2008 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by aehurst (Post 501260)
It is a short term condition. I spent the first 20 years of my life bored and looking for something to do... and the next 45 trying hard to get everything done that needed to be done. Haven't caught up yet.

I agree with you there, AEH; but as you state later in the thread, then comes marriage, kids, dog, house, lawn, career promotions, moves, boat, etc., all building until you retire. Fortunately, you learn to deal with it. After retirement, you can keep yourself busy for a few years (I took on a consulting job that lasted for 3 years), you can get on with all the things you've wanted to do but didn't have time or money for, but with kids all off and married themselves, and energy diminishing, you have to work at not being bored again. I'm not quite there yet, but I'm worrying about it.

tlarkin 11-03-2008 04:40 PM

read a book
do some push ups
write some code
play a video game

or I don't know, take some drugs to knock you out to sleep. If I need to sleep and I can't I take a benadryl because anti-histamines knock me the heck out.

blubbernaut 11-03-2008 05:02 PM

Playing with anything electronic (TV, computer etc etc) is a sure fire way to make sure you still won't get to sleep! In continuing the Buddhist theme of this thread, you need to practice emptying your mind. It doesn't come easily, but will help you in the long run. Also programs like Pzizz work wonders.

aehurst 11-03-2008 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by NovaScotian (Post 501455)
I agree with you there, AEH; but as you state later in the thread, then comes marriage, kids, dog, house, lawn, career promotions, moves, boat, etc., all building until you retire. Fortunately, you learn to deal with it. After retirement, you can keep yourself busy for a few years (I took on a consulting job that lasted for 3 years), you can get on with all the things you've wanted to do but didn't have time or money for, but with kids all off and married themselves, and energy diminishing, you have to work at not being bored again. I'm not quite there yet, but I'm worrying about it.

Right before retiring, we got to adopt the grandson.... and it all started over. This is my stinkin' 4th time through 6th grade and I didn't like it the first three times! (And you'd be amazed how much it has changed and how advanced today's kids are.)

Photek 11-03-2008 05:50 PM

Leeds will still be a very busy place at just past 1am.... why not join the students and go out...

The Faversham was always a personal fav of mine when i was in Leeds, the Cockpit was too... the Amsterdam Sex club was also good... but that closed a few years back...

Woodsman 11-04-2008 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by aehurst (Post 501260)
it is a short term condition. I spent the first 20 years of my life bored and looking for something to do... And the next 45 trying hard to get everything done that needed to be done. Haven't caught up yet.

applause!!!

Woodsman 11-04-2008 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by blubbernaut (Post 501463)
Playing with anything electronic (TV, computer etc etc) is a sure fire way to make sure you still won't get to sleep!

Is that psychological or is there some physiological thing with electromagnetic whatever? I have a fairly bad insomnia problem (the not getting to sleep at 12 rather than the waking up at 4 in the morning kind), and I have experimented with NOT playing with the computer until bedtime, but reading a book instead. Doesn't work.

Felix_MC 11-04-2008 08:43 AM

It's interesting how a thread started as an iChat dare became so entertaining overnight :D

NovaScotian 11-04-2008 09:02 AM

Election Day is long past here in Canada, Felix :D

Felix_MC 11-04-2008 09:08 AM

I made a small adjustment ;)

kel101 11-04-2008 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Felix_MC (Post 501522)
It's interesting how a thread started as an iChat dare became so entertaining overnight :D

wow so this is what you two do without me........

just wow

lol


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