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ArcticStones 08-28-2009 10:23 AM

A confident step
 
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Originally Posted by Woodsman (Post 549166)
You know the opening of the film "The Mission", where the guy is floating down the river on his cross, very peacefully, and then he goes over the edge of this immense waterfall?

Yes, that sort of plateau. :eek:

As the Wall Street CEO said to his staff: "We have long stood at the edge of the abyss, but today we are taking a decisive step forward."
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Jay Carr 08-28-2009 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by benwiggy (Post 549198)
Drink heavily. That'll take your mind off it.

Sadly I don't drink alcohol at all, nor do I use any other sort of narcotic. Not even them ones the doctors be prescribing these days... I wonder if you can get medical marijuana for depression (joking joking...)

The problem I see with drinking heavily is that you wake up in the morning with a severe hang over and all of your problems still with you, I don't know if I'd want both at the same time.

NovaScotian 08-28-2009 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by fazstp (Post 549150)
So I can look at my forties as more of a plateau relative to the subsequent decline? I'm not sure that meets my definition of optimistic :D.

Optimism has to be tempered with a touch of realism, fazstp, but I was thinking of physical decline not mental decline. I gave up hot-dog mogul bashing in my forties because I began to injure myself, injuries took longer to heal, and my reflexes weren't up to the level I liked to push them to.

But there's another component to aging; if you are a thoughtful person, you become wiser; gain wisdom. Bertrand Russell, one of the twentieth century's great mathematicians and philosophers, said that of the all factors that comprise wisdom, he put a sense of proportion first – as he put it "the capacity to take account of all the important factors in a problem and attach to each its due weight".

In the same essay he said:

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Most people would agree that, although our age far surpasses all previous ages in knowledge, there has been no correlative increase in wisdom. Wisdom has not kept pace with knowledge because of the exploding extent and complexity of the specialized knowledge required in professions like engineering.
In a speech to a graduating class of engineers some years ago I said:

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Originally Posted by NovaScotian many years ago
It is said that greatness comes to gifted mathematicians in their youth when they are not yet encumbered by too much wisdom and will gladly take on what wiser heads think impossible. Philosophers, on the other hand, reach their peak in old age, when they have accumulated the wisdom of a thoughtful lifetime lived. But great engineers are at their most capable and creative in mid-career - not too far from their education, but wise enough to apply it properly. Later, with increasing wisdom, they often become great managers instead of analysts and designers.

Life has phases.

tlarkin 08-28-2009 11:11 AM

Getting laid helps you get relaxed too!

Jay Carr 08-29-2009 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by tlarkin (Post 549216)
Getting laid helps you get relaxed too!

Or it would if it weren't for all the times you try and get laid only to be rebuffed... ;)

fazstp 08-29-2009 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jay Carr (Post 549139)
Or it would if it weren't for all the times you try and get laid only to be rebuffed...

Perhaps this quote helps?

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Originally Posted by Jay Carr (Post 549139)
In order to reduce one's anger, one must change one's perceptions. If you perceive the situation correctly, you will not be angered by it.

not :rolleyes:

Jay Carr 08-30-2009 11:08 AM

@fazstp -- Yeah...might not be so helpful in that particular situation. But then again, there are several thousands monks who have convinced themselves that sex doesn't really matter all that much. I'm sure they would take the rebuff far better than the rest of us...

Woodsman 08-30-2009 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Jay Carr (Post 549511)
@fazstp -- Yeah...might not be so helpful in that particular situation. But then again, there are several thousands monks who have convinced themselves that sex doesn't really matter all that much. I'm sure they would take the rebuff far better than the rest of us...

Unless, of course, monks take the cowl because they really can't stand being rebuffed...... :)

fazstp 11-05-2009 06:15 PM

Dim the lights, lie down and listen to track one of Brian Eno's Discreet Music


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